“How was school?” often gets a one-word answer. Try one or two specific questions instead. You do not need to work through the whole list.
Questions to try
- What made you smile today?
- What was the most interesting thing you learned?
- Who did you spend time with today?
- Was anything harder than you expected?
- What are you proud of today?
- Did anyone do something kind for you?
- Did you do something kind for someone else?
- Was there a moment you wished had gone differently?
- What are you looking forward to tomorrow?
- Is there anything you want my help with?
Make the conversation easier
Pick a calm moment rather than asking as soon as your child walks through the door. Listen before offering advice, and answer the same question yourself if they are unsure how to begin.
For younger children, keep the wording concrete: “Who did you play with?” or “What made you laugh?” Teenagers may prefer talking during a walk, in the car, or while doing something together.
The age range starts at five because these questions are written for a school day. For a younger child, use simple prompts about play, food, and feelings instead.
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